Dating and Relationship Advice

How to get your ex back

If you are like everyone else, you know that breakups are hard, especially if you did not want the breakup to happen. Unfortunately, things can stand in the way of a relationship, such as pride, jealousy, misunderstanding, selfishness and egos. Knowing what ended your relationship is important if you want to get your ex back.

Put away your pride.

If you can not admit you were wrong, even if you weren’t, then you will have little chance at getting your ex back. Both men and women need to know this because women are guilty of pride as well.

Sometimes, a simple “sorry” is all you need to say. Other times, you may have to do more. Either way, many people will take their ex back if they will admit they were wrong or agree to change. Therefore, it is important that you mean everything you say when trying to reconcile a relationship.

Stop being jealous

Women are notorious for being jealous, but many men struggle with jealousy as well. It is ok to be jealous if you have a good reason; for example, if your partner cheated on you or someone else in the past. Jealousy can cause either party to initiate the breakup.

Infidelity is not the only cause for jealousy. Many people get jealous of anything that takes their partner’s time away from them. This can include video games, computers, hobbies, and work.

If you want to get your ex back, but there are things in your life that make your ex jealous, you need to cut ties with anyone or anything that causes that jealousy. Additionally, if you are jealous for unnecessary reasons, stop being jealous.

Be more understanding

Misunderstandings cause many breakups. There are usually two reasons why misunderstandings occur. First, they may occur because one person is not willing to completely listen to everything that the other person says. Second, they may occur because one person has a hard time explaining how they feel. If your partner has a hard time explaining how he or she feels, you will have a hard time understanding exactly how they feel and what they mean.

If you want to get your ex back, you need to both listen to what he or she says and try to interpret the rest, as well as communicate how you feel.

Stop being selfish

Guys are notorious for being selfish, but women can often be just as guilty. Though selfishness shows in many ways, women have a hard time tolerating any single act of selfishness. If you are guilty of being selfish, then you need to make a conscious decision to change.

If you were selfish in the past, you may have a hard time getting your ex back. Your ex knows what kind of behavior you are capable of, thus he or she may have a hard time trusting what you say.

Hide your ego

Egos are not necessarily bad things; however, large egos are bad. Confidence stems from your ego, but arrogance and cockiness are typically the result of an inflated ego.

It is ok to have a sense of accomplishment, pride and joy, but be careful of how you present yourself to other people. If you act like no one else can meet your standards or no one is as great as you, chances are you won’t get your ex back.

If you want to get your ex back, you need to take all of these tips into consideration because you may be guilty of more than just one. However, since everyone is different, you may need to do other things before you can rekindle your relationship. Patience, determination, sincerity, and change are the keys to reconciling a broken relationship.

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