Are We All Racists When It Comes To Dating?
With every type of niche now being filled by new online dating services, there are many sites appearing that offer online communities and matchmaking services for ethnic groups such as black people, Asians or Hispanics.
So what’s the point of these dating services for specific racial groups, and do they offer you anything more than conventional personals sites such as Match.com or eHarmony?
Well it all depends on what expectations you have. These sites are ideal if you are the type of person who knows exactly what you are looking for, and you have a strong preference for meeting people of the same cultural background.
This is not such a bad thing – relationship experts have long said that we are drawn to people who are similar to us, and all things being equal, such relationships have a better chance of success than ones of couples from different cultural backgrounds.
Recent studies of daters have shown that women have been found to have a significantly stronger preference for relationships with men from the same racial background, while men appear to be less fussy about cultural roots. Studies of speed daters found that women were much more likely to ‘turn-down’ men of different racial backgrounds than men of the same race as themselves.
This was found to be true for women of various racial backgrounds.
While most dating websites offer some kind filtering system that lets members find other members of a certain ethnic origin, many niche sites have sprung up recently to cater specifically to certain ethnic communities. The larger ethnic sites, such as BlackSingles.com are doing extremely well, and are now among the most visited dating sites in the US.
If you are considering using an “ethnically themed” site it is always best to choose one with a reasonably large membership since the number of members in some of the niche sites can be relatively low.
While most members of such sites are from the same racial background, it’s worth remembering that they always welcome members of all races and colors.
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My boyfriend is black, sweet, and really sexy. Its just what I like, especially being a black female.
I think most of them do speaking for my black friends. They say they prefer black men over other race. And i agree because i chat up with them too on match.com and they agree.
This article is actually completely untrue! You’re either attracted to the “sexiness” of a black/white guy or you’re not. I’m black myself and I find that my current boyfriend is like the sexiest thing ever and he’s white – all of this talk about sometimes people choose people with the same culture is true is some cases, but in places where there is a lot of diversity, race wise, you may find that people will “experiment” more. I live in London and it totally has a right vibe for people who want to date outside of their race. Personally, I find that yes black men are attractive (Will Smith, some JLS members, T.I., Usher – the list goes on) but they’re just so bighead, often rude, insensitive and boastful “I have a bigger dick than any white man” in actual fact, have they seen the size of some white men’s penises? No! It’s not about how big your cock is about how you use it and it’s also about how well you treat your girl. Respect is always asked for! Being black dating a white guy adds to the extra feeling of the relationship being special x
Personally speaking I have always preferred white guys. They appear more naturally confident and self assured in themselves rather than the over the top fake Bull I hear from a lot of black guys (not all though…).
They know how to treat women with respect, generally speaking are taller and have better bodies in my experience in particular with English, Dutch and Germans. Also the size stereotype is the biggest bull I have seen some tiny black guys down below and my present bf is close to 9 inches and English (white) which satisfies me lol.
With a straight up choice between Adam Levine and Chris Rock is will always be Adam all the way…..
I must meet nisha, you sound very smart. You’re right hot people are hot plain and simple. Black or white a person can tell.
I get approached by many black guys and some white. English and Italian mainly. I’m a black girl living in England, and I like all types of men that I can really talk to. I fancy black men mainly though.
I am considered to be a pretty black woman of 30, 5ft.6 and 125lb. I find that a lot more white men flirt with me, and I believe it’s partially because I am smaller in body and have shoulder length hair. I do think that a lot of white men prefer that look – not all though. To me, race doesn’t matter, being happy and compatible is more important. You can always share the things that are different and learn from one another.
I’m black..and HOT! Believe it or not I have dated more white guys than black guys. Not that I prefer them over black guys thats just what seems to happen to me. I love white guys..I love black guys..If you’re hot..ur hot! that’s what it comes down to. Personally, I’ve seen attractive men in every race. Thats why they call me an equal oppurtunity dater!
This article is akin to the discovery of hot water, i.e. Old news! Of course Black women prefer Black men; we’re talking about some of the hottest beings on earth – sweet, sensitive, smooth-talking, smart, sexy. How many other guys do you know who are naturally muscular with hard, round…Sorry, I digress 😀
So that I don’t seem biased, there are pearls to be found amongst men of all races. I found such a pearl in an Italian man, but as a Black woman, it just makes more sense to be with someone with similar cultural mores…and who is incredibly hot. Give me my dark brown sugar anytime x.