Is the Real You Good Enough?
When it comes to dating, most of us are a little skittish. After all, we’re talking to someone we hardly know and hoping they like who we really are.
Well, most of us, anyway.
For the rest of the daters out there, you might not be skittish because you’re projecting a completely different personality than the one you wear during your dating off-hours. Yes, you are faking it during your dates, but it seems to work, so what’s the harm in it?
Let’s sit down for a moment and think about why being yourself is the best way to date:
- It’s easier
- It takes less energy
- You don’t have to constantly second guess your every word, action, and expression
When you are just ‘you,’ you get to show your date what they’re in for – like it or not. And would you really want to waste your time with someone who isn’t truly the person they seem to be? No, you’d call them a liar and something that was just trying to get something from you.
So, why are you doing it too?
Becoming more comfortable with yourself is not an overnight process, to be sure. But it is something which will help you hook up and match up with a person who likes you for who you are – on the date and down the road.
http://blog.datingwise.com/190/is-the-real-you-good-enough/Self ConfidenceTips and IdeasFake,PersonalityWhen it comes to dating, most of us are a little skittish. After all, we're talking to someone we hardly know and hoping they like who we really are. Well, most of us, anyway. For the rest of the daters out there, you might not be skittish because you're projecting...taraTara Milleradmin@datingwise.comAdministratorDating and Relationship Advice