Is It Easy To Get What You Want?
If only dating was as easy as going to the grocery store. You make a list, you bring it with you, and you find the exact person that you’re going to fall in love with – and that’s all the work you have to do.
But it isn’t that easy – or is it?
Online dating has certainly helped men and women have a better say in what they want and don’t want in a partner – they simply show their preferences, block out the people that creep them out, and ‘interview’ their potential love matches before they even meet.
Finally, a computer can do some good.
But you really have to know what you want from a partner. And that means taking the time to really ask yourself what’s important. Are you interested in the long term? Short term? Looking for someone to marry or someone to just get to know better?
The saying, “Be careful what you wish for” should be about dating.
Take some time to really sit down and think about what you want for your self and for your happiness. Becase in the end, it’s not about that knight in shining armor; it’s about finding someone that leaves a smile on your face – even if they’re on the computer screen.
Today is the day when you start getting specific about what you want from another person – think about your hobbies and your likes (and dislikes). What do you want to share with someone else? In the end, it’s all about sharing yourself with someone, becoming a part of their life – so if you just don’t click, you just don’t click.
While online dating can help you meet people with the same interests, you have to know what your interests truly are and what is absolutely important to you.
And what makes you smile.
http://blog.datingwise.com/17/is-it-easy-to-get-what-you-want/RelationshipsLove,Men,Partner,Perfect,Relationship,Success,WomenIf only dating was as easy as going to the grocery store. You make a list, you bring it with you, and you find the exact person that you're going to fall in love with - and that's all the work you have to do. But it isn't that easy...taraTara Milleradmin@datingwise.comAdministratorDating and Relationship Advice