Three Easy and Inexpensive Ways to Get a Man to Notice You
If you’ve ever spent an entire afternoon dreaming about how nice it would be if a certain someone would just make eye contact with you, or if you’ve ever wondered why the cute guy in your office never talks to you, there’s a good chance you’re not doing the right things to attract male attention.
If you’re not doing the right thing to attract the attention of the opposite sex, you are seriously hurting your chances of ever finding Mr. Right.
Now, before you start panicking, I have some good news for you. Not only can you get men noticing you, you can actually take proactive steps to start turning heads every day. The best part is, you don’t even need to spend a penny to start doing it. With the right combination of eye contact, body language and touch, you can get under a guy’s skin so fast that he won’t know what hit him!
Throughout the ages, the most lusted-after women have understood the importance of eye contact. Cleopatra, the Egyptian seducer of Mark Antony and Julius Caesar, was famed for the colorful makeup she used to highlight her eyes. This was not an accident: directing a man’s attention to your eyes is one of the most effective ways to get him to notice you. However, you cannot initiate the eye contact yourself, as that can come across as desperate or even manipulative. Instead, you have to get a guy to initiate eye contact with you.
The best way to do this is to use eye makeup; like Cleopatra, use eye makeup (mascara, eye shadow) that brings out your eye color. For example, if you have blue eyes, use brown eye shadow, as it will bring out the blue eyes. Once you have caught a guy in your gaze, hold eye contact for a few seconds: this will show him your confidence, and arouse his curiosity.
Once you have caught a man’s eye, you can hold his attention with your body language. The single most important thing to remember about body language is to always maintain good posture. Good posture means standing with your back straight and your shoulders held high. One technique that can help you develop good posture is to stand with your back against the wall so that your feet, butt, shoulders and head, are all touching the wall.
Once you have lined your body up against the wall, try maintaining the exact same posture as you walk away from the wall. If you notice yourself starting to slouch, position yourself against the wall again, and start over. Once you are comfortable walking with your back straight, make a conscious effort to do it as much as possible out in public. If you do it correctly, men will take notice.
Of all the tactics you can use to get a man’s attention, none is riskier (or more rewarding) than using physical touch. Naturally, before you try this strategy, you need to know how to do it properly. The key to maintaining a man’s attention with touch is to be subtle, and to make sure he already has some interest before you make a move.
Do not, under any circumstances, try touching a man you have not yet been speaking with; doing this enough is sure to earn you a reputation you do not want. Instead, when you have been talking to a man for a while, try touching him on the shoulder to emphasize a point. For example, if you and a guy are talking about musicians, and he mentions the name of a band that he likes, you can touch both of his shoulders emphatically as you mention that you like that band too. If done correctly, this will not only hold the man’s attention, but get him interested in you as well.
Of course, getting a guy to notice you is hardly an exact science. While the strategies mentioned above are great places to start, they are not the be all and end all of getting noticed. Naturally, your use of clothes, fragrances and makeup will play a role as well. However, if you want to go out tonight start turning heads as quickly as possible, you can’t go wrong with the potent combination of eyes, posture and touch.http://blog.datingwise.com/1503/get-a-man-to-notice-you/FlirtingBody Language,Eye contact,FlirtingAre you a having hard time getting a guy to notice you? If so, you’re not alone. Most women are clueless when it comes to getting their dream guy’s attention. If you’ve ever spent an entire afternoon dreaming about how nice it would be if a certain someone...taraTara Milleradmin@datingwise.comAdministratorDating and Relationship Advice