Delivering Breakup News
Last month we talked about how to decide if a relationship is not working.
This month we’re going to give some tips for actually making the break if you’ve made the decision that the relationship isn’t going well.
It’s never easy, but if you follow these rules, you should be able to make a clean break without too much drama.
- Don’t break up in a public place – It is inconsiderate to take someone on a date to break up with them. If your date becomes upset, you may both be embarrassed if you’re in public. Ask to come over to their home and talk, instead.
- Don’t break up with a letter or email – That just proves you’re a coward. If you’ve been dating the person, you owe them the courtesy of telling them face to face.
- Be kind, but be honest – Don’t say “It’s not you; it’s me”, or any of those other tired clichés. Tell your partner the truth; but do it in a kind and compassionate way. They are sure to appreciate your honesty and respect your courage.
- Don’t call it a “break” – Saying “we need to take a break” is just a way of breaking up without actually saying so. If you know that you want the break to be permanent, just say so.
http://blog.datingwise.com/1209/delivering-breakup-news/Breaking UpBreaking Up,Relationships,TruthLast month we talked about how to decide if a relationship is not working. This month we're going to give some tips for actually making the break if you've made the decision that the relationship isn't going well. It's never easy, but if you follow these rules, you should...taraTara Milleradmin@datingwise.comAdministratorDating and Relationship Advice