Should I Pay for Dating Advice?
In recent years, we’ve seen some dating gurus come and go. You know the ones I mean; they offer their advice on how to attract the opposite sex via an e-book that you can purchase off the internet. But, do singles really need to pay for dating advice? And, are these people really “experts”?
I suppose the answer to this, like so many other things, is yes and no. There are a few people who may need tips on meeting other people and on what to expect from the club scene. Those who are extremely shy may benefit from some confidence building tips and from some “opening lines” that can help them get a conversation going.
The downside to these kinds of programs, in addition to their cost, however, is that using their techniques may make you come across as a “player”. If your goal is to be a player, that’s fine. However, if your goal is to meet your soul mate, these techniques may actually hinder you.
What most of us are looking for is a person with whom we can really have a connection. It’s only possible to truly connect with someone when you’re being yourself.
So, skip the pricey dating gurus and focus on letting people get to know the real you. If you want to spend some money, spend it on joining an activity club for singles or on an online dating site. There’s plenty of free dating advice on the internet in blogs just like this one that can help you overcome shyness and be more prepared to meet new people.